If you see the world or deity through the lens of absolutes, you will eventually lose your footing. Our human vision is already limited without throwing more blinders on. Absolutes used in every situation is an over simplification. It's what the sadducees and pharisees used to incite the Jews against and indict Christ. Again, some situations are unique and specific. Donny Osmond was told by the same leaders not to go on a mission. I want to see Frank serve. It's worth giving up a few million IMO but if he said God told him otherwise, I won't say he can't be correct in his inspiration.