where the boys are following in the footsteps of their deadbeat fathers and free riding the system.

Part of it is men are screwing up their lives before they have a chance to invest in their future i.e. getting involved in drugs, other addictions, etc.

Part of it is the lack of incentive to settle down and marry based on skewed marriage laws and the availability of women to give them the benefits of marriage, which means they don't need to invest in a career.

Part of it is society that has a liberal definition of disability, which gives men an excuse to not work.

Part of it is feminism, which means that women that can take of themselves without men.