But when they don't show the penalty i want to know why.

You're also wrong on how the call was made. The call was made after the game was moving for a while then everyone noticed Pavelski was on the ground not moving. That's because the refs DIDN'T SEE IT. They didn't see it because it wasn't a penalty.

Look I agree with you that we didn't need to melt down and allow 4 goals. I agree that we should have put it away in game 6, that we should have won in OT in game 7.

But that was an egregious call that was made up simply because the refs were trying to penalize the outcome rather than what happened. We had positioned ourselves to win in game 7 and the refs jacked us up.