My son BOMBED his last piano recital. Shaky hands, tons of missed notes, tears,

Dec 2, 2021
10:53:06am

Triznaynay All-American

etc. It was rough. But it was also because he didn't prepare enough, and we knew it. So you bet your butt he's practicing more for this next one next week.

I still think he's going to bomb though, lol.

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Too many parents are bailing their kids out

RockyBalboa

12/2/21 9:47am

Anxiety is definitely used as a reason to not do things now when it should be the opposite.

cheezedawg

12/2/21 9:49am

Anxiety is also an extremely valid reason NOT to do something

Hotlanta

12/2/21 10:11am

Sure, in cases of legitimate severe clinical anxiety, which are relatively rare

seacougar

12/2/21 10:33am

Yeah. If we treat anxiety as an automatic reason to not do things, we can never overcome it.

cheezedawg

12/2/21 11:11am

True, but to not live a full, rich life isn't one of them.

BleedCougarBlue2

12/2/21 2:37pm

Occasionally, but very seldom.

Coug-Ida

12/2/21 6:28pm

The modern "awareness" of mental health has unfortunately had a negative impact

seacougar

12/2/21 10:38am

Yes. Too many parents try to protect their children from failing or from the consequences of their actions when those

No touching

12/2/21 9:50am

There's a family in my ward that has stopped going to church because Primary

WhirleyPop

12/2/21 9:56am

I would suspect, then, that's not the reason they stopped going to church.

squidmark

12/2/21 10:04am

If I said what I really think about this I'd surely get suspended.

BleedCougarBlue2

12/2/21 2:38pm

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juantoad

12/3/21 12:11am

Um....can that be used to get out of Elder's Quorum? Asking for a friend.

Triznaynay

12/2/21 10:42am

Some context here

RockyBalboa

12/2/21 10:00am

My daughter's BYU essay focused on her disastrous failure at a violin recital

runnincoug

12/2/21 10:04am

She stole that from me 😉

Tsisquan

12/2/21 6:53pm

Meh, recitals are stupid. Good on the parents for getting out of it.

panacablue

12/2/21 10:28am

My son BOMBED his last piano recital. Shaky hands, tons of missed notes, tears,

Triznaynay

12/2/21 10:53am

Good on you for not bailing him out. Even more props to him

RockyBalboa

12/2/21 11:04am

Recitals suck and are pointless. As a parent, I'll have my kid perform for me. They don't need to perform in a setting

supertux

12/2/21 11:31am

So the kids learn to overcome performance anxiety, which won't come doing it

runnincoug

12/2/21 11:34am

Lawnmower parenting sucks. Dealing with failure was key to many successes later

Kauai

12/2/21 10:15am

Parents need to be a safety net, but that also means that they need to let kids

wabluecoug

12/2/21 10:19am

It's beyond frustrating. I really struggle to have patience with those kinds of

seacougar

12/2/21 10:31am

Book recommendation to all: The Coddling of the American Mind

scottpete

12/2/21 10:32am

Have heard several recommendations for this from others as well. Might be time.

seacougar

12/2/21 10:49am

Must read

runnincoug

12/2/21 11:35am

I teach young teenagers at a public school.....It's getting worse by the year...

All-American Coug

12/2/21 11:21am

NAILED it. Either control your fears or be forever controlled by those fears.

BleedCougarBlue2

12/2/21 2:36pm

I think this is part of why the church has added an Emotional Resilience

cougarsnooty

12/2/21 4:50pm

This is very complicated. But clinical anxiety disorders are COMMON

juantoad

12/3/21 12:17am

Speaking as someone who's suffered from anxiety & depression for 3+ decades

RockyBalboa

12/3/21 5:52am

I agree with you. This is a huge issue in our society.

juantoad

12/3/21 7:03am

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