I'm pro-life in almost all cases. So the fetus' right to life trumps the parents right to choose - in my opinion.
However, I'm also a defender of the parents' right to decide how to raise the child as long as they provide basic love and care for the child.
Things like religious choice, education, and health care are the parent's right to choose until the child can choose for themselves.
In our family we baptized LDS at 8, vaccinated, and attended public school.
I try to respect others' different choices. We've done our best to teach our kids respect of other races, religions, etc. If I had a child with an immune deficiency, I would probably try to inform others of the danger, and take steps to protect her if people nearby were un-vaxxed.