winning? #1 ahead of all others, # 3 behind faith and family or someplace down the line?
I believe you can win and keep faith and family first. As demonstrated by Coach Edwards and Bronco Mendenhall you can do them simultaneously. Coach Edwards was successful because he was trusted ( great recruiter ) and he was genuine. He never had to yell at anyone for not wearing their garments.
My only interactions with Kalani were cordial but so matter of fact that in the private setting we were in left me unimpressed.