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Jan 29, 2016
12:23:21pm

Gavin Playmaker

It's sad to me that this even had to be posted . . . because it's obvious.

Too many social media savants just want to star in their own movie and be heralded as "insiders." Social media has made us more selfish and less principled about our loyalties. I'm not sure there is anything we can do about it, but I'm hoping CB members will rise above and show other institutions how it should be done. Pipe dream?

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Gavin

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P Norton laying the smack-down. Every Cougar fan should know this.

LegitCoug

1/29/16 8:20am

i F O nly there was a place we could talk in secret.

Cougarclaw

1/29/16 8:24am

Or not at all 😊

ArcticKat

1/29/16 8:44am

and the media didn't exist

Acorn

1/29/16 8:50am

Because a coordinated effort to spike stories and censor bad press always works

1/29/16 8:26am

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kunarcougar

1/29/16 8:29am

Sure. That's pretty much what they do now.

1/29/16 8:32am

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kunarcougar

1/29/16 8:41am

I think it was a problem this time, they made no announcement

mogelijk

1/29/16 11:55am

I don't think anyone is asking BYU to change what they do - we just want the

crack

1/29/16 8:31am

I'm asking BYU to change what they do.

1/29/16 8:34am

I think that is a different discussion- although I would like to see some

crack

1/29/16 8:47am

RE: I think that is a different discussion- although I would like to see some

blu76

1/29/16 9:18am

That's the best way to handle it - imo. Between the student and Bishop or other

crack

1/29/16 9:24am

RE: I think that is a different discussion- although I would like to see some

MoMoney88

1/29/16 11:23am

No it's not - there are all kinds of HC breaches that I know about that have never hit CB or Twitter.

HarlemCoug

1/29/16 8:53am

IF that's the case--and it might be--then there's not a problem to address.

1/29/16 8:55am

they're trying to limit the leaks to 100%. It won't happen (obviously) but it's reasonable to push to get as close

HarlemCoug

1/29/16 9:58am

Discretion is a thing of the past. Sad but true.

StalwartBraveTrue

1/29/16 12:47pm

This is true, but it is unrealistic to assume it is possible to go back to the

Iman23

1/29/16 8:27am

I agree, but...

LegitCoug

1/29/16 8:34am

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DaCougEye

1/29/16 11:51am

troll - just go away

HarlemCoug

1/29/16 11:52am

The honor code was set up by a student council in the 40's. It is outdated.

Gene Frenkle

1/29/16 5:01pm

It seems to me it isn't the UU fans with cameras that he is talking about. It

Real G Man

1/29/16 8:36am

Agreed. I think you are right. Nobody eats their own better than BYU fans

Iman23

1/29/16 8:37am

So let the Ute fans break all the stories. BYU fans keep their traps shut.

Cougarclaw

1/29/16 8:40am

Yeah, letting your rival set the narrative is a great idea.

Iman23

1/29/16 8:41am

So let's counter with "none of our business" or the like instead of digging deeper into the story and shouting from

CalGTR

1/29/16 8:50am

Yewts will be Yewts - but Cougs putting it out there is ridiculous and we should call them on it.

HarlemCoug

1/29/16 8:54am

Why is it necessary to be "forced" to hand out stiffer penalties...

1/29/16 8:29am

Because the LDS church is sensitive to any bad PR from local or national media

byukarl

1/29/16 8:50am

Mormons eat their own!

Tsisquan

1/29/16 6:05pm

Moreso than any culture I know of.

MatthiasG

1/29/16 11:35pm

Once details are known, folks will have expectations with respect to punishment. If the details are not known, BYU can

CalGTR

1/29/16 8:55am

Folks need to stop picking up stones and need to mind their own business

1/29/16 8:56am

Absolutely. And that includes BYU fans.

CalGTR

1/29/16 8:59am

Uh, look what group you're talking about.

southernfriedcougar

1/29/16 9:05am

It's about trying to establish a culture of keeping HC issues private. No sense giving up due to some folks that seem

CalGTR

1/29/16 9:08am

The only way this is honestly going to happen is by changing the Honor code...

1/29/16 9:13am

There is much improvement to be made among our fanbase on this issue even without changes to how the HC is administered.

CalGTR

1/29/16 9:17am

You can't fix a fan base lol

thebruce

1/29/16 9:47am

This is exactly correct. Anything else is a crappy band-aid.

1/29/16 9:17am

Which brings us to the next question. Why is some kid drinking beer or having

Singcat

1/29/16 9:42am

Really, how well do you understand the Gospel? Maybe the church should end all

1/29/16 9:59am

Absolutely, don't give up. But look what you're fighting against.

southernfriedcougar

1/29/16 10:48am

Spot on... That is a very sad reality.

1/29/16 10:49am

It's certainly a very uphill climb.

CalGTR

1/29/16 11:02am

"It was out of love and concern" I discussed your problems w everyone except you

MatthiasG

1/29/16 11:38pm

sometimes these HC breeches are against the law and will get the police involved - and all schools have reputations that

HarlemCoug

1/29/16 8:55am

And in Utah, even if it doesn't break the law, it offends some "very righteous"

Wedgetail

1/29/16 9:22am

Breaking the law is a whole different matter ...

1/29/16 9:36am

I don't think it's so black and white - plenty of laws are regularly broken but only selectively enforced. Let's take

HarlemCoug

1/29/16 9:46am

Or...players could stop doing stupid stuff. That would help.

Iman23

1/29/16 8:33am

The discussion is not about the stupid stuff the players do it is about the

Real G Man

1/29/16 8:42am

lol ^^^ first posts about being "realistic" just above.

southernfriedcougar

1/29/16 8:55am

If you didn't do stupid stuff I wouldn't be forced to gossip. Gosh!

Metallicat

1/29/16 8:58am

You lost me at: "I know these guys are kids and make mistakes...BUT". No need for the "but".

Desert Rat

1/29/16 9:13am

There you have it. Fans like Iman just love casting stones, and won't ever stop.

messi

1/30/16 9:54am

I'm not sure how you got that out of my post. Just making the point

Iman23

1/30/16 6:23pm

For you, it might not be hard to keep it. Don't speak for them as if you know.

messi

1/30/16 7:28pm

Whatevs, bruh.

Iman23

1/30/16 7:45pm

I bet he expects to keep receiving his inside info though. Just not you. Only

RdF3

1/29/16 8:39am

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East1999

1/29/16 8:39am

Which I can imagine can be really hard to keep that in and not be able to talk

RdF3

1/29/16 8:41am

That is fine, but you can't hide who is suspended, you can hide the how long and

1/29/16 8:40am

He should have tagged Criddle.

slowhiteguy

1/29/16 8:40am

You'd think Criddle would have the slightest concept of this.

southernfriedcougar

1/29/16 8:56am

But he didn't say anything...just that he knew good and bad stuff

Wear Blue

1/29/16 11:51pm

I guess I don't understand why social media is forcing BYU to impose harsher

P-Boy Squad

1/29/16 8:42am

It's much easier to go lite if it's not in the media. All schools react the same. They all have reputations to protect

HarlemCoug

1/29/16 8:58am

^^^^

thebruce

1/29/16 9:00am

Because it's not always up to BYU.. look north

byukarl

1/29/16 9:05am

Gossip is so rampant, especially in religious cultures, because it reinforces

fierce16

1/29/16 8:57am

Just said the same above. This sort of thing will never stop.

southernfriedcougar

1/29/16 9:06am

Mormons are the worst at gossip.

LeoCougar

1/29/16 3:25pm

I don't think it's too much to ask for "fans" and "insiders" to leave it alone

Wedgetail

1/29/16 8:59am

Dude. I love this post.

LegitCoug

1/29/16 9:09am

Very well said.

Gavin

1/29/16 9:41pm

I understand what he is saying, but don't buy it. Either the penalty fits the

Real Men Wear Blue

1/29/16 9:10am

every school administrator cares if it's in the media - every corporation cares if it's in the media and they all

HarlemCoug

1/29/16 9:49am

So is he saying Kalani doesn't want HC violations reported to the HCO or that

Scratch

1/29/16 9:18am

It just reduces your flexibility when things become public, because now you have to be concerned to some extent with PR.

CalGTR

1/29/16 9:22am

Yup, and with HC violations, each case should be treated differently based on

whoneedscorners?

1/29/16 9:35am

waste of a time to vent about this. This is 2016 and this is how the mass

idacoug

1/29/16 9:26am

We can't stop 100% of it, but we can certainly limit it. Lost of HC breaches go unreported to the media. We should try

HarlemCoug

1/29/16 9:51am

Isn't P Norton the guy that threw the twitter tantrum over the Utah game cancellation?

1/29/16 9:29am

Good luck with that. All it takes is some player missing games or suddenly

Singcat

1/29/16 9:31am

Why does BYU so severely punish people that have public issues?

g$

1/29/16 9:34am

This is correct. I posted above on this but you said it much better.

Singcat

1/29/16 9:48am

agreed

byukarl

1/29/16 10:55am

has anyone been tweeting out what a player did? I haven't seen it in a long time

palangi

1/29/16 10:10am

To satisfy both needs: 1) Don't further expose wrong doings of athletes 2) Allow fans to be fans

ocmyhome

1/29/16 10:34am

It's hard enough with all the Ute convenience store clerks

RedSox

1/29/16 10:56am

RE: P Norton laying the smack-down. Every Cougar fan should know this.

MoMoney88

1/29/16 11:11am

It's a nice thought and I'll certainly do my part

KingDave

1/29/16 11:35am

The issue here: Insiders. Then the regime shouldn't info on suspensions.

NacoCoug

1/29/16 11:55am

He assumes that leaks are always the result of fans

cougXor

1/29/16 12:18pm

It's sad to me that this even had to be posted . . . because it's obvious.

Gavin

1/29/16 12:23pm

A FREAKING MEN! This is exactly how the honor code should be used anyway. Since

Bluedarts

1/29/16 1:17pm

I completely agree

Mabuhay Coug

1/29/16 1:37pm

It is sad to think that a roommate of a student at ASU could drop a dime to the

Gene Frenkle

1/30/16 4:18am

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