Let me ask you this, it's the same question i asked raider above. If one of your sons friends found out he had started looking at porn, wouldn't you want him to tell you so that you can help him find his way? often people won't admit they have sinned, and don't find help until someone "reports" them. So "snitching" helps people out. This thread has turned into a bunch of junior high girls who are worried that if they report the bully they will be "snitches". Just watch Disney channel and it will tell that it's better to "snitch" then keep it a secret, maybe you should watch it more often.