and as I said it is fine to disagree with me, I respect your opinion on things, and not every situation is the same. But adding responsibility and time onto ones already very busy life is not an all around positive. You're trying to make it be that in every single case getting married is an all around benefit and that simply is not true.

In many cases it adds stress and concern to already stressful situations. I was not a college athlete and getting married added a whole lot of additional stress and worry into my life and it took my wife and I awhile to adjust to being married. That isn't exclusive to athletes, that's everyone.

I think we'd all like for it to just automatically make everything better.