I knew there was abuse going on, but I thought my ex-wife had it under control. I just didn't understand how bad it was. I guess that's my excuse.
I"m afraid he's scarred for life and I feel incredible guilt over it. I agree that I may over compensate now, but I just feel so bad for him all the time.
He even has a 7 year-old son who doesn't want to be around him. Seeing my grandson interact with his dad is heartbreaking. The little bugger's mom poisoned him early on and wrecked their relationship. I love my grandson and he's sweet to me, but it bothers me a lot to see such cruelty from him when it comes to how he treats my son.