You realize how incredibly arrogant that comes off as, right?

Jan 15, 2022
10:01:15am

shoganai Truly Addicted User

Nobody's going to blame you for deciding the long-commute SoCal lifestyle isn't for you and your family. Of course it has some major downsides. But there are many happy families who have made it work and they enjoy their own benefits from it.

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This week I learned of 3 employees at my organization that work second jobs to

rivercitycoug

1/15/22 7:35am

I assume they have families.

Mister P

1/15/22 7:36am

Yes.

rivercitycoug

1/15/22 7:36am

Sounds like a spending issue as much as anyrhing

Turnpike Lane

1/15/22 7:37am

Or an alimony/child support problem

HingleMcCringleberry

1/15/22 7:41am

Or medical bills. We have no idea.

garyfan

1/15/22 7:41am

Harsh to say, but probably largely true. Make some lifestyle adjustments and the

shoganai

1/15/22 7:41am

Does that spending include housing? Student loan payments? Children?

ReyOso

1/15/22 8:12am

How much house? How much on cars? Trips and hobbies?

Turnpike Lane

1/15/22 8:21am

A car is a necessity. The median house in Utah is over 500,000 right now.

ReyOso

1/15/22 8:22am

It’s $425k. And again, which car? A civic commuter or that brand new car?

Turnpike Lane

1/15/22 8:25am

In June 2021, the median price for a single Fam home in SL County was $550k and

rivercitycoug

1/15/22 8:39am

So he just now bought a house?

NorCal_Coug

1/15/22 8:45am

Some people have 2 40-50k cars and think it's normal

ochobeeguy

1/15/22 10:17am

How many 40" tvs?

cracka

1/15/22 8:32am

They may not still live with their parents.

Future_Tacos

1/15/22 8:21am

I had a second job when I was younger. It stinks, but you gotta do what you gotta do.

John Doe

1/15/22 7:37am

$70k doesn't pay the bills? Do they live in Southern California?

The Dark Knight

1/15/22 7:42am

Even in SoCal 70k is doable with a modest number of lifestyle sacrifices.

shoganai

1/15/22 7:44am

Yes. Like living in Commerce or San Bernadino.

byubyu

1/15/22 7:45am

The median family income in LA County was less than $50k last I checked.

shoganai

1/15/22 8:02am

Hello, just swooping in to say $70k in LA with a family is horrible

runitup590

1/15/22 8:25am

^^^this

643

1/15/22 8:32am

And the median home/apt/shack is a poop hole.

byubyu

1/15/22 8:39am

Depends on how much of a commute you'll tolerate.

shoganai

1/15/22 8:47am

Like I said, San Bernardino.

byubyu

1/15/22 8:51am

Is there something wrong with that?

shoganai

1/15/22 9:01am

If you work in LA? Yes, absolutely there’s something wrong with that

runitup590

1/15/22 9:05am

Like i said, every place has its trade-offs.

shoganai

1/15/22 9:14am

*Alert for CBers looking to simplify your financial life for your family:

runitup590

1/15/22 9:55am

You realize how incredibly arrogant that comes off as, right?

shoganai

1/15/22 10:01am

I think you can be blamed for choices within your power

EQD2

1/15/22 10:33am

I’m saying this as someone with experience, so call it arrogant if you want

runitup590

1/15/22 11:05am

You're not the only one on this thread with first-hand experience in SoCal.

shoganai

1/15/22 12:56pm

RE: *Alert for CBers looking to simplify your financial life for your family:

Mr. Rumsfield

1/15/22 1:46pm

Those are more than trade-offs at this point

Mr. Rumsfield

1/15/22 11:31am

That's why I brought up Southern Cal.

The Dark Knight

1/15/22 9:50am

What’s the best way to offload 4 kids? That would really help. Asking for friend

WDaddy

1/15/22 7:50am

And that friend is me

Odysseus

1/15/22 7:57am

I live in so cal and this is absolutely not true

1manwolfpack

1/15/22 11:31am

CB, where everyone makes 150k+, but also 70k is enough

I'mnotacber

1/15/22 8:16am

I'll be the first to admit I make less than $70K

The Dark Knight

1/15/22 11:42am

I'll be first to admit my wife makes over a $150K;-)

CariocaCoug

1/16/22 9:12am

The federal Low income level for a family of 5 in LA county is 102K. If you pay

Jay Kay

1/15/22 10:10am

RE: $70k doesn't pay the bills? Do they live in Southern California?

Socrates Johnson

1/16/22 3:37pm

That doesn't seem like a bad thing. If you want more money, then add another income stream

Odysseus

1/15/22 7:43am

That sucks. But I admire their drive and determination to make ends meet. A lot

WDaddy

1/15/22 7:44am

Not sure why so much judgment here. Maybe they’re trying to pay for their

Memmo

1/15/22 7:54am

No judgement, just clarification. That's not "just paying the bills"

The Dark Knight

1/15/22 8:02am

That's somewhat true. But some folks don't want to live an hour from their work just so they can afford a house.

John Doe

1/15/22 8:07am

That's kind of funny. Doesn't want to live an hour away so works extra job to

Pick-Six Coug

1/15/22 11:49am

I can see both sides of that decision.

John Doe

1/16/22 1:00pm

Sure agreed. But you reading a lot into the OP. Few of us are financial wizards

Memmo

1/15/22 8:09am

I guess it depends on how you define basic necessities.

ReyOso

1/15/22 8:16am

The median home is no longer attainable with a median income.

shoganai

1/15/22 8:28am

Like I said, they are struggling to pay for extras.

The Dark Knight

1/15/22 8:35am

I make about that, the struggle is definitely real

wannnacruise

1/15/22 8:01am

I can’t imagine starting out right now from a homeownership standpoint. At least you’re building equity in the townhome

Odysseus

1/15/22 8:16am

$70k is perhaps $4500/mo take home. If they’re just starting out, and the

valleus

1/15/22 8:07am

And it's highly dependent on location. My rent in SF is $4,300 for a 3 bedroom.

ReyOso

1/15/22 8:19am

Oh yeah. I think they often take a 1hr Bart from Richmond. It’s very hard.

valleus

1/15/22 11:10am

This- 75k is maybe 4500 take home. Rent is likely half of that

1984coug

1/15/22 8:29am

I’m 34, married with two kids. Wife is full time with the kids.

JohnnyC

1/15/22 12:50pm

If it is in Utah, it wouldn't surprise me due to housing costs here.

Fido

1/15/22 8:21am

Medial home price in SLC area is north of $400k and most are well above that.

Fido

1/15/22 8:25am

It’s actually north of $500k now.

RdF3

1/15/22 8:26am

Sadly this is my wife and I right now. No kids yet and we make a little bit more

provoprodigy

1/15/22 8:43am

Yep. Thank the Chinese government and their lax hygiene standards and

BlooCoog

1/15/22 9:10am

Yeah, this post was definitely all about China...

ochobeeguy

1/15/22 10:21am

Covid has had a HUGE impact on housing prices. It's affecting my family. The

BlooCoog

1/15/22 10:27am

Definitely has had an effect on the economy in general and how we approach

Armchaircoug

1/15/22 10:46am

Do you think they are doing the extra hours to just get by... or are they doing it to get ahead/provide a better than

HarlemCoug

1/15/22 10:27am

Currently making 60k. Cars paid off, and not living paycheck to paycheck.

Powerbait DPM

1/15/22 10:35am

Are you going to be a doctor?

stoils

1/15/22 10:42am

Yes, currently in residency. So my income will certainly increase but I’ve

Powerbait DPM

1/15/22 11:43am

When did you buy your home?

RdF3

1/15/22 10:46am

Bought it in may of 2020.

Powerbait DPM

1/15/22 11:43am

I knew a guy making ~80k who drove for Uber Eats. Senior enlisted in the

califcougar

1/16/22 7:15pm

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