I make low 70k, have a 4 bed house in Eagle Mountain. Mortgage is 1680 per month. Contribute 5% to my 401k, full contribution to HSA (600 per month). After all bills are paid, we have 850 left over for food, clothing, gas and activities.
One thing is we purchased a condo when we first got married over 8 years ago, sold that a purchased a townhouse. 18 months ago we purchased our current home. Rolling the home equity with each move.