Make no mistake a program needs it's fans for every reason we could list.
However, when you start feeling your importance is some special status and anything perceived as negative said by a player or coach is a personal attack on you, you need to take a step back. Check your pride.
Just as wise is the advice for players to show restraint it should be the exact same and maybe more so for fans...who by in large are supposedly mature adults. Unfortunately some of you are way too stubborn to accept some humble pie.