to others, cover it up. If you can't, just feed your baby, anyway. If you make an effort, I'm good. It's a matter of courtesy. The woman should be courteous to those around her who may differ in opinion on whether or not she should just "whip it out." The people around her should be courteous enough to not make her feel belittled or judged if she has to feed the baby in public. If everyone would just lose this I'm right, you're wrong mentality, and just use a little common courtesy, this wouldn't have to be a conversation, and I wouldn't have to be subjected to your terrible opinions.