They are no longer proselyting, so relaxing the rules with the family should not be that big a deal. I have always hated how rigid things are though. I had no problem following the rules at BYU, but felt that it was so overboard on control when guys couldn't take a test because some puppet behind the counter determined there was too much stubble. Fortunately for me, it took quite a few days to grow anything that was noticeable.