Anyone else ever get to the point where they decide to just follow the core teachings of the church and stop sweating the little stuff like this? I mean seriously, what a cool experience to go pick your kid up and even spend a day or two in his area where he/she can show you around and maybe brag and introduce you to people whose lives have been changed due to their decision to serve. My attitude at this point in my life is:
1. Is what I'm doing constructive for my family?
2. Is it hurting anyone?
3. If I'm doing something that's remotely controversial,what are the potential negative results and can I live with it and still attend the temple?

Mormons are so freaking hard on themselves that it starts wearing on me...