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Heck, I'll even replace 40s with mid 30s. As your bishop, I do NOT want to discuss your decisions on how to manage your bedroom actions. That is not my job. I am 100 times more worried about helping a 17 year old young man over come a trial of his faith or helping a family that just lost a job or a loved one.