Already had a temple recommend interview in the mix. Stated we were having some feelings about our family, we prayed, we sought counsel from the handbook and wanted to do the right thing (as the handbook instructs) and get his perspective and counsel.

To the contrary to your comment, he seemed very appreciative that we actually read the handbook and sought his counsel. His counsel consisted of about 11 words: "If you feel it is right for you, go for it."