Are you suggesting the Black people are “more equal” because they can use the N-word?
If so, that’s hardly a great privilege, and it’s certainly no reason for outrage. I can think of dozens of examples from history and from the present that do warrant black outrage and would warrant suggest that whites are far “more equal” (privileged). Again, as whites, we are no victims and have little reason to whine. Just don’t use the word. No need. It’s a small ask. Fighting against it as if we’ve been greatly wronged is ludicrous.