Suppose.
You and Real Men miss my point completely and my fingers aren't fast enough to explain in great detail.
I'm a Die Hard fan of my kids no matter their failures. I have the same approach to my Cougars. I have never been a bronco fan but as long as he's the leader I try my best to support him.
Money is all about priorities and sacrifice. We could compare W2s and hobbies to prove my point but I suppose you'll continue to defend "dad" and ignore the real issue.
By the way I'm someone's dad as well - when and if any of my children talk about me on here I hope you are as empathetic to me😉.