I'm guessing by your post that he didn't use the word "sin". Sure, he shouldn't have used the wording that it was "wrong", just putting yourself in a more spiritually dangerous position. I agree. I guess this is an example of HCO like mentality. So the Stake President is a BYU alum that was indoctrinated by the honor code and has trickled those feelings down to his stake right...versus just using poor wording?