I have a friend who was a non-member. He felt the same way as you. However,

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May 6, 2016
8:21:56am

coolblue Contributor

I have a friend who was a non-member. He felt the same way as you. However,

he later converted and found that mormons are very wrapped up in their religion. It involves fulfilling their calling, studying lessons, family time etc.

He discovered they weren't trying to be anti-social, they just were because they have a lot on their plate because of the church.

Sometime, they just needed some down time.

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Expansion & BYU being difficult to deal with (anecdotal 1st hand experience)

LVCougarFan

5/5/16 6:52pm

Sometimes $10 is just too much to squeeze out of people.

whirl

5/5/16 6:57pm

RE: Sometimes $10 is just too much to squeeze out of people.

LVCougarFan

5/5/16 7:16pm

Whoosh! Did you feel that breeze over your head?

sah22

5/5/16 9:21pm

We (HCBH & I) both worked in the U.S. senate early in our marriage.

soupie

5/5/16 7:10pm

very well put. it is a difficult situation with your leaders I'm sure.

LVCougarFan

5/5/16 7:15pm

I'm quite sure all BYU lawyers are LDS.

soupie

5/5/16 7:18pm

I learned after I was hired that upper management was hesitant about hiring me,

5/5/16 8:25pm

I just took a job with a start up in Mesa with no Mormon employees

permiso

5/5/16 9:39pm

Really is sad that so many have that type of view on the church as a whole.

RaggaeCoug

5/6/16 7:38am

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colocouga

5/5/16 9:29pm

i see your point and that is why the LDS church has been a public affairs fail

kiyoshige

5/5/16 7:20pm

I don't hang out with co-workers because it almost always involved alcohol.

CougarThug

5/5/16 7:27pm

/\ Thank you & well put /\

Wingnut

5/5/16 7:42pm

RE: I don't hang out with co-workers because it almost always involved alcohol.

LVCougarFan

5/5/16 7:51pm

Very similar to my experience in med school at the University of Utah

Game Changer

5/5/16 8:17pm

Thanks for Sharing... I experienced almost the exact same thing at medschool

LVCougarFan

5/5/16 8:52pm

I could say the same thing about non-mormons or any other "group". I've held

SUAVO

5/5/16 10:25pm

RE: Very similar to my experience in med school at the University of Utah

Mot

5/6/16 8:57am

RE: Very similar to my experience in med school at the University of Utah

Mot

5/6/16 8:59am

I agree with you. From what I have seen it is about much more than alcohol.

Singcat

5/6/16 7:49am

I think there's a big difference between stupid drunk for social purposes only and business meetings where

soupie

5/5/16 8:06pm

I think for all of us there's a balancing point. Now granted, I'm sure you can find an example or two of someone who

TaiJuan

5/5/16 8:17pm

Absolutely agree. I do think there's a case to be made on perception as far as B12 expansion goes.

soupie

5/5/16 8:22pm

This is a valid point, and I totally get it. It also proves the op point.

MatthiasG

5/5/16 11:07pm

Those are narrow-minded, dorks that don't know how to be social in the world

Kerbouchard

5/5/16 7:36pm

That is a valid criticism large scale, I think.

buckles

5/5/16 7:41pm

And this has to do with BYU how?

5/5/16 8:02pm

RE: And this has to do with BYU how?

LVCougarFan

5/5/16 8:07pm

And because you've dealt with some Las Vegas Mormons, you've got the answers?

5/5/16 8:19pm

It's pretty simple, right? We played hardball with the Big East because they were a bad P5 conference on the verge of

TaiJuan

5/5/16 8:23pm

RE: And because you've dealt with some Las Vegas Mormons, you've got the

LVCougarFan

5/5/16 8:25pm

RE: And because you've dealt with some Las Vegas Mormons, you've got the

5/5/16 8:43pm

Dude mellow the yewt out.

GritHead

5/6/16 8:36am

Sheesh, lighten up Jack...

5/5/16 8:35pm

Wow, relax...

KendoVABeach

5/5/16 8:42pm

You seem like the light-hearted kind of Mormon

vegas guey

5/5/16 10:32pm

^^^Doomed to repeat it

MatthiasG

5/5/16 11:09pm

Did u read/pay attention to the entire OP?

NotOfYourFaithBYUFAN

5/5/16 11:09pm

Yes, have you read mine?

5/6/16 3:55am

My goodness... There is one in every crowd that gets butt hurt.

RaggaeCoug

5/6/16 7:43am

And yet, no one can answer my question. Why do BYU fans feel this unending need

5/6/16 9:05am

So the fact that it has come up more than once doesn't lead you to believe

RaggaeCoug

5/6/16 10:03am

And I am not saying you are a horrible fan. But you took this to a new level.

RaggaeCoug

5/6/16 10:07am

Not even apples to apples like apples to salmon

Bobmarleyjr

5/5/16 8:03pm

Let me give you a real-life example from tonight. I work in downtown SLC. Most there are a good number of LDS, but our

TaiJuan

5/5/16 8:04pm

amen

LVCougarFan

5/5/16 9:08pm

It might be short-sighted to think that none of them will ever have an influence

5/5/16 10:43pm

It's stupid of you to think that I don't foster relationships with coworkers. But if I am going to take time away from

TaiJuan

5/5/16 10:51pm

I must have misunderstood the tone of your post. I apologize for that and for

5/5/16 10:59pm

We are cool. There are after work things that I feel are necessary, those that might be useful, and those that are worth

TaiJuan

5/5/16 11:05pm

I am LDS and I totally agree with your assessment!

colocouga

5/5/16 9:30pm

lol. I think most on this thread are being a little dramatic. A few mormons give

SUAVO

5/5/16 9:57pm

I work for a large multinational and my experience is similar to yours. The few

Singcat

5/5/16 9:40pm

This is why I joined a small firm with LDS guys many years ago. No more awkward

Ash

5/5/16 10:16pm

Lucky to work in large company with introvert engineers

ColoSpgs

5/5/16 10:23pm

A word of advice for you...

5/5/16 10:34pm

Was this intended to be funny?

TaiJuan

5/5/16 10:40pm

I chuckled

SUAVO

5/5/16 10:46pm

At my post, I assume. Cause that joke is as old as it is dumb.

TaiJuan

5/5/16 10:52pm

Yes, It's a joke that's been around for years and years. I'm surprised you

5/5/16 10:58pm

Thats a good one,illicits either an uptight look,or a knowing laugh.One or other

MatthiasG

5/5/16 11:17pm

Mike Romney tells this joke once a week. You still a millionaire Mike?

NotOfYourFaithBYUFAN

5/5/16 11:34pm

Here's a thought.

LilToney

5/5/16 10:50pm

Agreed. For me it's more about family time than a fear of alcohol

Ulysses14

5/6/16 6:33am

Soooo... Mormons are like the French.

greatbam

5/6/16 4:12am

It is illegal to discriminate on the basis of religion in hiring:

Monomachos

5/6/16 7:09am

Just tell Big 12 to read CB for 10 min.....

blueeyes

5/6/16 7:10am

True of fans of every team

Ulysses14

5/6/16 9:54am

Ya to some extent, but BYU fans are the definition of a " Peter Pan Complex".

blueeyes

5/6/16 10:34am

Maybe those you mention want to seperate work life and personal life?

SoValleyCOUG

5/6/16 7:45am

I have a friend who was a non-member. He felt the same way as you. However,

coolblue

5/6/16 8:21am

My experience as a Mormon who grew up outside of Utah but lives in UT since BYU

BYU Grounds

5/6/16 8:50am

I was in that world only briefly but I remember having a distinct impression

Ash

5/6/16 9:27am

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