Catholic school, or Baylor etc.
I guess you don't know the same avid ND fans I know because I have heard many discussions about why so and so didn't go to ND. Also keep in mind that ND losing out on 1 or even 20 great athletes has no real effect on their recruiting. BYU losing out on 1 LDS athlete has a major effect on our recruiting.
I loved your post and agree 100% with the concept of the post but I don't think I agree about the shaming aspect.