money to others and to humanitarian efforts with no expectation of earthly reward or recognition.

That said, the problem is that most of the world doesn't take notice or care. For them, it's about the loud critics of BYU/the Church and long-held doctrine (traditional male/female roles and institutions and the old stance on the priesthood) that they claim made us superstitious, misogynistic, bigotted weirdos. I see very little of this bad behavior on the inside as a member and Y grad. Indeed, I see way more selfless giving inside the Church/BYU than I see by my many friends outside the structure, but it appears words matter more than actions when it comes to BYU/the Church. Wish we could get folks to understand.