perspective was how they left. If they were dehlinin' (it's a verb) it up, they were kicked out. If they weren't antagonistic to the church but it was more of a I just don't believe it anymore, it wasn't hard to stay in school. My experience (not 100%) is that those that remove their name from the records of the church are usually antagonistic even if it's more passive. It is not the best policy but those that leave the church and are antagonistic need to move on regardless. Just my opinion.