so when you assumed I'm friends with him, I wanted to make sure it was clear this wasn't a friend backing up a friend thing.

I think you both make good points. But I think you're both a bit relentless, based only on observations within this topic.

That's all I was saying - I don't have a vested interest in either side and can see the POV of both you posters.

I haven't even made up my own mind with what should happen cuz I just don't know.

Mostly -
I'm just not a fan of posters essentially mocking other posters or discounting their opinion because it's the opposite pinion of theirs. That's not cool. And that's how you came across to me.

I'm sure you're a good dude and I probably agree with a lot of your POV on this. Guess I just disagree with your delivery. But hey no big deal either. I'm not offended, I hope you're not either. I apoogicze if so.

Either way, fight officially over.