See, it is fans like you who look the other way, justify the dreadful behavior of fans, and the WUSS (sorry, but mighty became wussy yesterday). In no way shape or form is it ok to bring blow-up dolls with a players moms name being put on it. That was there for all to see and you lost any and all supposed moral high ground you had with that.
Fact is, a small, but voal minority of your fan base is earning the reputation that is sticking to the rest of you, because people like you would rather downplay and jutify it than address it head on and stop it.
Chew on that.