It’s a vert basic concept:
A single mother working her butt off in 2 or 3 jobs to make ends meet will never be able to help guide her kids in school or positive habits like a dual parent home will… switching off doesn’t even remotely count… you gotta be home to read with them every night…
You gotta be home to make sure they’re home when they should be… that isn’t religion.
no, grandma doesn’t count… grandma has paid her dues and is warn out… dads need to step up and be dads.
Seriously, the problem is the dads:
It’s unrealistic for a teenage dude to step up and be a dad…. So, forget morals and religion use your brain and use a jimmy when you do the hibidy dibidy or even gasp… wait until you actually want a family…
THAT will solve the problem with inequality… it starts and ends with the inequality in the quality of parents…
Our new COO of our 6 hospital system is an awesome African American woman… secret to her success (according to her) is her parents would not accept anything but her best… they held high expectations from when she was little and it became a part of her…