Weight. There is nothing we can do to stop it. My wife and I are very healthy and fit. We say all the right things. We set good examples. We do not go out to eat. We do not harp or say anything about her weight but try to subtly encourage her to lose weight.
Unfortunately she is probably put on 30 or 40 lb in the last year or so.
Yes boys are stupid. I am one of them. Boys will scan and make quick judgment call about who they think will be good to date. This all happens within a second. Unfortunately physical attractiveness is their top priority. I'm worried for my daughter because it totally sucks and it's not fair. The less she gets asked out the more she eats and consequently the less she'll get asked out. Crappy situation