I have tons of friends that have their lives together, great jobs, active in the church, good financial situation, awesome guys, great humor,
All live in Provo/Orem. Most graduated from BYU.
And the girls always go for the “cool guys”, or the kid who has a nice car cuz their parents bought it for them, and they haven’t paid a single cent towards their rent or college. Basically gliding through college with bad grades. Have no plans in their future. And hit the gym for 3 hours a day.
It’s just how dating works these days, especially with how big social media is. Everyone is always trying to impress everyone, so looks>> take priority over the actual important things.