I remember all the girls that would sit around their apartments and bemoan that mr. Right wasn’t showing up at their door. Then they’d bemoan all the “stalkers” that wouldn’t leave them alone or do nothing to make themselves more physically attractive.
Most Boys are wired a certain way.its not them Being shallow, And if you want one, you have to find a way to make yourself attractive to them.
Not like girls don’t force boys to jump through cultural hoops too. Flowers, rings, romance, money, dancing, endless listening, emotional roller coasters, not knowing what she wants... and some boys even enjoy some of those things, but many do it to get the girl.
Not going on enough dates? Change something. Orphans in Romania are great, good for you, but if she wants dates, take a makeup or makeover class. Get some books on flirting, spend some time in the gym, ask her guy friends what she does that turns them away. Check her wardrobe... stop putting the blame on them.