Jun 23, 2019
9:34:34am
9:34:34am
Not always the case
I know many 8 - 10s in high school who can't buy a date in college. If they have horrible attitudes or think guys will just fall at their feet still they are nuts.
I actually think its better at BYU then in the 60s and 80s. When my dad was there he noticed in a average apartment of 6 girls, 1 to 2 would date all the time. Maybe one or two others would get asked out in a blue moon and the others rarely if ever. In the 80s I noticed the same thing and they were not always the 10s getting asked out. A lot if 6-7s with good personality traits can run circles around 8-10s .
I know personally a number of guys my age who were 8 - 10s marry head scratching 6s or worse. I also saw the reverse but women tend to be a bit more discriminate.
So I don't believe in your 10s with 10s statement. Its a myth for lazy daters to feel good about settling.
I actually think its better at BYU then in the 60s and 80s. When my dad was there he noticed in a average apartment of 6 girls, 1 to 2 would date all the time. Maybe one or two others would get asked out in a blue moon and the others rarely if ever. In the 80s I noticed the same thing and they were not always the 10s getting asked out. A lot if 6-7s with good personality traits can run circles around 8-10s .
I know personally a number of guys my age who were 8 - 10s marry head scratching 6s or worse. I also saw the reverse but women tend to be a bit more discriminate.
So I don't believe in your 10s with 10s statement. Its a myth for lazy daters to feel good about settling.
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I feel for her. My dating game was pathetic at BYU. I was 400 pounds and had zero confidence. I decided to change
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