Also fit girls have fit girl hobbies, yoga, running, tennis, shoeshoeing,
paddle boarding, crossfit, roadbiking etc.
So fit guys run Ragnars with them play intramural soccer, dodgeball, kickball, ultimate frisbee, volleyball, snowboarding, mountain biking, hiking.
Partner dancers date each other. Swing, salsa, tango, blues.
Musicians marry other musicians, singers, pianists. guitarists, etc.
Doctors marry nurses etc. Teachers marry teachers
Volunteers find it attractive to date other volunteers, Lion's Club, Rotary, Habitat.
She needs to decide the guys she wants and take up those hobbies while still being feminine. Fit guys do not want to change their lifestyle for a girl, rich girls do not want to give up there lifestyle for a guy etc.