"BYU's current policy essentially encourages people to keep it hidden" is ridiculous. You will need to explain that.
I agreed to do this.
I am doing it. No complaints, things are going well.
I am no longer doing it, by choice.
I am going to hide it for various reasons, including discomfort and avoidance of accountability, as well as potential ramifications that I was aware of when entering into the agreement.
Maybe the whole thing will go away.
Oh no, it is not going away. What should I do? I think the agreement is flawed. What a poor agreement. I cannot believe this agreement is in place. The agreement is making the problem worse...