How many people have you met that just stopped going to church while at BYU?

Oct 7, 2015
1:09:38pm

sandtrapcougar

I think most bishops work with them if they are going to other wards etc., but if they flat out stop going to church the bishop's should pull the endorsement (doesn't mean all do).

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"I was one semester away from graduation, left the church, & was expelled"

snowbird

10/7/15 10:10am

The trays do come back full at the Belmont.

RealComfortableJeans

10/7/15 10:14am

lol, used to be Branbury Park in the late 80's early 90's.

boogers

10/7/15 10:19am

That's it! The Branbury. One of the greatest news articles I've ever read.

RealComfortableJeans

10/7/15 10:23am

I tend to agree

Northwest Cougar

10/7/15 10:15am

Honestly, if it's your last semester, you won't need another ecclesiastical

dilbert

10/7/15 10:21am

We make choices. They have consequences. When has that ever changed?

HangookCoug

10/7/15 10:39am

Still have to go to church because your Bishop can pull your ecclesiastical at

sandtrapcougar

10/7/15 10:54am

I have never met a person first hand that this has happened to.

andrewth

10/7/15 11:09am

How many people have you met that just stopped going to church while at BYU?

sandtrapcougar

10/7/15 1:09pm

Would they even be guaranteed to notice?

Northwest Cougar

10/7/15 1:42pm

Well part of the Honor Code is that you attend your BYU ward regularly.

sandtrapcougar

10/7/15 1:49pm

At BYU wards people are moving in and out so often it's impossible to keep track

andrewth

10/7/15 4:17pm

BYU wards have very little turnover during the semester. So it is actually easy

sandtrapcougar

10/7/15 4:20pm

I'm curious how you track attendance in your YSA ward

dilbert

10/7/15 4:40pm

I have a feeling the Demographic of your YSA Ward is very different than mine.

andrewth

10/7/15 4:57pm

Start with the rolls in each class. Then each month we compile list of

sandtrapcougar

10/7/15 9:58pm

Ah, ok. I was thinking more about sacrament meeting, but that makes sense.

dilbert

10/7/15 10:11pm

I had 4 close friends going into BYU. 3 of the 4 Flat out stopped going.

andrewth

10/7/15 4:13pm

Agreed

HangookCoug

10/7/15 10:17am

Ummm. Non-LDS people go to BYU all the time. Also, ND is full of non-catholics

srey

10/7/15 10:40am

This is utter nonsense.

Singcat

10/7/15 11:18am

People are risk adverse by nature; saving your butt far outweighs "being

kunarcougar

10/7/15 10:21am

I'm torn on this issue . . .

Gavin

10/7/15 10:25am

Because they were admitted based on academic and religious

CMM Cougar

10/7/15 11:37am

THIS ^^^^^^

Monomachos

10/7/15 12:47pm

i guess what you are saying is you don't want anyone at BYU who struggles with

run26

10/7/15 1:10pm

See, that's the way the policy is perceived

Gavin

10/7/15 2:19pm

Did you read what the BYU spokesperson actually said? There is a difference

Monomachos

10/7/15 2:45pm

even if you've "made up your mind" you might come back

run26

10/7/15 4:06pm

IMO, it doesn't really matter what the intent of the person is.

blackandblue

10/7/15 10:31am

Here's my thing. Every year, I am charged with finding 70-75 HS students whose

Six Foot Seven

10/7/15 10:38am

Boom.

Iman23

10/7/15 10:39am

Pretty sure they aren't asking to keep the subsidized tuition. Pay the non LDS

Mr. Scoobs

10/7/15 10:54am

Non LDS students get huge subsidies as well.

boogers

10/7/15 10:58am

The cost to the church is still very much there. They continue to fund every

Six Foot Seven

10/7/15 11:00am

So why the inconsistent treatment between them and other non-LDS kids?

swingcat

10/7/15 11:06am

I understand what yo are saying, but it isn't the same. By choosing to

boogers

10/7/15 11:23am

But isn't ever non-member kind of "rejecting" it too?

jayriggity

10/7/15 11:28am

I think you get the point. Pro-actively disassociating from the Church

boogers

10/7/15 11:49am

Yep. The difference had to do with making a covenant and then breaking it

dilbert

10/7/15 12:57pm

There isn't an inconsistency.

Six Foot Seven

10/7/15 11:29am

??? That's totally inconsistent.

jayriggity

10/7/15 11:37am

No, I'm sorry, but you are wrong.

Six Foot Seven

10/7/15 11:38am

Hmm. I guess we'll have to agree to disagree about that. Seems quite private to

jayriggity

10/7/15 11:54am

...and? Who cares how many people know about it? You can still do it in a

Byron McNertney

10/7/15 11:56am

And I don't disagree with any of that. This discussion was about what gives BYU

Six Foot Seven

10/7/15 12:14pm

BYU has the "right" to whatever it wants (IMO). But as an institution of integri

jayriggity

10/7/15 12:36pm

Okay, let me try again.

Six Foot Seven

10/7/15 12:52pm

Thats an interesting way to look at it. And this is an honest question: does the

jayriggity

10/7/15 1:03pm

I doubt there would be repercussions for a nonmember in your example because,

Six Foot Seven

10/7/15 1:14pm

I would imagine the same rules would apply. Let me explain:

lawilson

10/7/15 1:19pm

so an LDS student who went inactive could get endorsed by another religion's

run26

10/7/15 1:25pm

No... because that person is still a member of the church.

lawilson

10/7/15 1:35pm

According to the organization making a fuss about this, BYU really doesn't look

jayriggity

10/7/15 2:09pm

However I will propose an interesting thought:

lawilson

10/7/15 1:47pm

Who do I get my ecclesiastical endorsement from if I have removed my name

lawilson

10/7/15 11:20am

There are plenty of non-LDS that still get endorsments from chaplains. Don't

Mr. Scoobs

10/7/15 11:22am

You misunderstand.... If they can get an ecclesiastical endorsement

lawilson

10/7/15 11:42am

Right. They would still need to live the honor code and would get endorsed by a

Mr. Scoobs

10/7/15 11:48am

One of my brother's good friends actually WAS one semester away from graduating

LeftOfNormal

10/7/15 10:39am

Why are they idiots? Because they don't agree with Mormon doctrine? You do

Singcat

10/7/15 11:21am

No, they are idiots because of how they chose to behave. But they certainly

boogers

10/7/15 11:25am

But that behavior is only idiotic to you because you don't agree with it or what

Singcat

10/7/15 11:30am

I have plenty of personal issues that I struggle with that are contrary to what

boogers

10/7/15 11:38am

I'm pretty confident this whole incident was planned in advance to embarrass BYU

BeardedSpock

10/7/15 1:03pm

What it really boils down to is admission to BYU is a contract: for the

Monomachos

10/7/15 11:27pm

I actually only knew one person who started LDS at BYU, stopped going to church,

Ygirl

10/8/15 9:39am

It is possible to transfer credits and finish a degree elsewhere. Was

Monomachos

10/8/15 9:57am

I'm not sure. BYU looks very good on a resume though.

Ygirl

10/8/15 12:11pm

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