relentlessly mock and deliberately try to discredit your religion? I guess it's OK because they don't claim to be trying to live up to any standard. But because BYU does and they frequently fall short, you're going to let a hate stew deep in your soul for everything related to it. By the same standard, if you have a church leader who falls short, you will develop a lasting hatred for all things related to the church. Then your transformation to the dark side will be complete.
I find it interesting that I attended BYU and have known many people who did but haven't heard any stories close to what you are implying about the honor code. But I guess I should leave the true story about BYU to the ALUFs, who seem to know more than anyone else about it.