I agree, I know tons of BYU grads, including many of my close friends,
and most of them are awesome. Most of them also complain about the tattle-tale environment, as well as the overly restrictive nature of the school where you aren't treated like adults because of things like curfews and extreme dress and grooming standards. I mean, you have all kinds of people on this board criticizing these things as well, it's not like it's a secret that many people aren't crazy about these things.