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Very unprofessional IMO
I don’t care if it is the norm. This would make me mad.
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Soccer recruiting frustration
Blueto
10/26/20 10:16pm
this isn't an anomaly. we've heard stories like this from parents on here about byu.
BlueFrog
10/26/20 10:18pm
What club did she play for?
Iron Coug
10/26/20 10:20pm
BYU nearly always has their recruits decided by Soph. year.
YSMACK
10/26/20 10:22pm
I get that but it actually would've been great for them to just email us back
Blueto
10/26/20 10:25pm
Fair, she used to have 2 communicative assistants. Both gone.
YSMACK
10/26/20 10:29pm
This is exactly right. It’s not Jen wants to and may seem incongruent to have
BlackBart
10/27/20 6:49am
Did she email Coach Rockwood or just the assistants?
Littlerich
10/26/20 10:22pm
All the above.
Blueto
10/26/20 10:26pm
Sorry to hear that
Littlerich
10/26/20 10:39pm
Soccer is tough to get on at BYU. More than several deserving candidates don't
byubyu
10/26/20 10:24pm
Agree. Silence isn’t cool
byu1
10/26/20 10:28pm
BYU needs to communicate better.
Archaea
10/26/20 11:31pm
Sorry to hear that. You’d hope the staff would at least acknowledge the outreach
CougGolf
10/26/20 10:26pm
Sorry to hear... but congrats on the other offers..
cougfanz
10/26/20 10:28pm
This is typical of most college coaches-not unique to BYU
El Paso Coug
10/26/20 11:00pm
What do you mean if you as a parent ever contacted a coach then your daughter
cougforever
10/26/20 11:07pm
Coaches NEVER want to hear from parents
El Paso Coug
10/26/20 11:17pm
I have also seen this to some extent
Blue Heart
10/27/20 1:40am
Not unusual
Fido
10/27/20 9:47am
I hadn't heard this before, but it wouldn't surprise me. My wife works with
Mitty
10/27/20 9:53am
With all due respect, this isn't true in many cases.
Gentleman Stan
10/27/20 1:31pm
They would love to talk to you... if they want you.
TheLost
10/27/20 1:36pm
I think it depends on the Coaches and the Parents.
Blue Heart
10/27/20 1:46pm
BYU Recruiting is weird - I have a child going through it for a different sport.
sandiegocgrfan
10/27/20 12:41am
Thank you!
Blueto
10/27/20 6:34am
I’ve had two girls go through the BYU recruiting process. One is still
cougarim
10/27/20 1:46am
Great information. Best of luck to your girls.
Blueto
10/27/20 7:03am
Bummer about the walk on program. I have a 12 and 11 year old..
cougfanz
10/27/20 8:34am
Do you need me to start making some calls for the 11 y.o.? Gotta get
Iman23
10/27/20 10:08am
If your younger daughter really wants to play for BYU, I recommend you get
cougarim
10/27/20 11:44am
yea, thanks for the advice.. we were going to do two camps this year as well
cougfanz
10/27/20 11:53am
Celtic 05?
YSMACK
10/27/20 10:48am
My daughter plays Sparta 05.
YSMACK
10/27/20 2:54pm
Good luck to them.
Blue Heart
10/27/20 11:06am
Very unprofessional IMO
BlueLine
10/27/20 3:06am
You have 5 offers and you call the process frustrating?
Alpi Gusto
10/27/20 3:52am
It’s not the 5 offers that are frustrating
BlueLine
10/27/20 4:13am
It’s just the way it is. It isn’t personal. It’s not right. They just have their
BlackBart
10/27/20 6:56am
I don’t see this as “making her wait.”
Alpi Gusto
10/27/20 11:13am
I agree with everything you said. We have been very fortunate. The coaches who
Blueto
10/27/20 6:26am
Really good points, except the silent no-response has no excuse. That's garbage.
Mitty
10/27/20 9:56am
You can’t respond to everyone, that’s just the way it is.
Alpi Gusto
10/27/20 11:11am
Fine, it's the way "it is". Still rude and disrespectful. I'm not talking
Mitty
10/27/20 11:19am
Thats not how recruiting works.
TheLost
10/27/20 11:26am
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Mitty
10/27/20 11:22am
They can have graduate assistants respond
Archaea
10/27/20 3:28pm
BYU loves leveraging the "destination" brand with LDS kids.
shoganai
10/27/20 6:24am
It sucks - but I talked to a D1 girls bball coach this weekend - she has
OC Coug
10/27/20 7:28am
That sums it up best. Must be an overwhelming amount
cougfanz
10/27/20 7:59am
BYU Recruiting/Not in a Good Way
SACDOC
10/27/20 7:59am
Lol. You want her to recruit out of state players but then she gets ratted on if
byubyu
10/27/20 8:14am
RE: Lol. You want her to recruit out of state players but then she gets ratted
SACDOC
10/27/20 9:30am
She doesn't admit it. Then BYU is not put on the spot. It's a catch 22
ImuaKahuku
10/27/20 9:50am
Hyping BYU sports news on Sunday by BYU Media employees no problem
Charles Darwin
10/27/20 9:59am
Because Utah is a perfect demographic for soccer recruiting
cougfanz
10/27/20 8:26am
It also only costs less than a tank of gas. And for programs with little to no budget for recruiting, that matters too.
Turnpike Lane
10/27/20 8:52am
Plus I’ve learned that they truly recruit from 4-5 clubs
cougfanz
10/27/20 9:07am
Definitely should have let TJ Haws and Yoeli Childs walk in favor of someone out
Charles Darwin
10/27/20 8:53am
I don't agree with this
YSMACK
10/27/20 10:56am
This is the story in all BYU sports through the years, but I'm hopeful that with
NowIsTheTime
10/27/20 8:30am
You don't think that Mark Pope is going to pass on kids
OC Coug
10/27/20 8:42am
Of course Mark Pope passes on kids, but if he says to reach out, he'll
NowIsTheTime
10/27/20 9:24am
same experience with a relative who ended up signing with Florida
aaronmania
10/27/20 8:54am
My sister had the same exact experience
NacoCoug
10/27/20 8:58am
Honestly, I would shot TH or Chad Lewis a email and let him know.
ordinary tri guy
10/27/20 9:11am
I think they are just not that into her (unfortunately)
NacoCoug
10/27/20 9:12am
If could be the case but no response when communication was requested is poor
ordinary tri guy
10/27/20 9:24am
My advice, if she really wants BYU, ask to walk on. Dax Milne had 3 offers 0 BYU
ImuaKahuku
10/27/20 9:42am
Bad advice... take the money from another school.
TheLost
10/27/20 10:22am
So money is the issue? Not that she really wants to play for BYU? Bad advice?
ImuaKahuku
10/27/20 2:45pm
Yes... Bad Advice to try and walk on.
TheLost
10/27/20 3:18pm
So you are saying it is only about money? What if money is not a problem?
ImuaKahuku
10/28/20 9:20am
Its about playing for a team that values you as a player.
TheLost
10/28/20 9:43am
For sure.. but your “value” can change really quickly once you set foot on
cougfanz
10/28/20 9:53am
$ is relative to your status. Scholie to the school and location.
ImuaKahuku
10/28/20 9:56am
I doubt people understand how much D1 athletes devote to their sport. They
Archaea
10/29/20 1:03pm
So Frustrating! I had a similar experience with cross country/track
BYU-TIFUL
10/27/20 9:43am
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Charles Darwin
10/27/20 9:58am
Never play favorites when it comes to recruiting...
TheLost
10/27/20 10:27am
Good advice.
Blueto
10/27/20 10:37am
My HCBW was an elite distance runner. BYU's "recruiting" of her was embarassing
Doogal McCougar
10/27/20 10:31am
Not running your wife down at all, but she contributed to the problem
reddead
10/27/20 10:59am
Elder Bednar was her Stake President in Arkansas and mentioned this very issue
Doogal McCougar
10/27/20 11:19am
"She did eventually transfer to BYU..." and that is why they don't put the
Diablo and Doc
10/27/20 12:02pm
Niece had a similar experience - try coach Anderson
teancum
10/27/20 11:15am
Don’t feel bad. Our niece was the Texas 6A 1st goalie. In two consecutive
Cougarpride
10/27/20 1:43pm
Couldn’t agree more. They are very stuck on the self-select through camp model
BlackBart
10/27/20 2:20pm
RE: Soccer recruiting frustration
ChandlerAZCoug
10/27/20 2:19pm
I don't mind that they don't want her. I just wish they could communicate that
Blueto
10/27/20 2:29pm
RE: I don't mind that they don't want her. I just wish they could communicate
ChandlerAZCoug
10/27/20 4:16pm
BYU can still communicate.
Archaea
10/27/20 3:27pm
BYU screws the pooch on recruiting often.
RestonWarrior89
10/27/20 3:26pm
Yep.. don't send emails or letters.. call or show up and knock on the coaches
byukarl
10/27/20 3:43pm
I wouldn't take it personal
byukarl
10/27/20 3:54pm
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savagecougar
10/27/20 4:26pm
Congrats on the offer...
yahoo1211
11/26/20 12:05pm
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