If your daughter truly has several D-1 offers (not D-2 or junior college), simply have your daughter give the BYU coach a final opportunity by telling the coach she plans to accept one of the following other offers within x number of days if she doesn’t hear from BYU. If you, as a parent ever contacted the BYU coach, then your daughter was immediately crossed off the recruiting list.
I have a son signing his baseball commitment paperwork while on his mission next week. Try having a child do the recruiting thing while on a mission-crazy process.