Have a great day. Seems like most disagree with you as do top public and private institutions.
Maybe pull your kids from schools work sports that have tryouts. Maybe go to a private school. Ours has rec type teams for kids who don’t make it. That being said all kids must play 3 sports, they have done studies and value what sports teaches even if you don’t. As an fyi this is a top academic school…well known on the east coast.