Yeah we are coming from polar opposite positions. It is difficult for me to see from your point of view. I never would have called myself a coug while attending Utah. So we have started from divergent places.

I am practicing LDS... I am put off by those Mormons I feel do more harm to our faith by openly looking down on others.

Cheering for BYU doesn't mean attempting to insult and put down Utah. I don't disrespect the institution of BYU or what it stands for. Some of the fans though... well... We don't all see the same things. Two wrongs don't make a right... If BYU fans support their school by putting down another... then they can't cry about it when it occurs in the other direction. Really... who is supposed to have the higher standards?

Maybe we could agree that it is difficult for most of us to "turn the other cheek". Even though we should.